{"id":33034,"date":"2020-07-09T05:45:27","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T10:45:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/?p=33034"},"modified":"2020-07-08T16:21:48","modified_gmt":"2020-07-08T21:21:48","slug":"tulsa-educators-share-five-tips-for-how-teachers-parents-can-talk-about-race-with-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/2020\/07\/09\/tulsa-educators-share-five-tips-for-how-teachers-parents-can-talk-about-race-with-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"Tulsa educators share five tips for how teachers, parents can talk about race with kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_33035\"  class=\"wp-caption module image aligncenter\" style=\"max-width: 1920px;\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-33035\" src=\"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/files\/2020\/07\/Denita-White-and-Katherine-Maloney-1920x1434.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1434\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/files\/2020\/07\/Denita-White-and-Katherine-Maloney-1920x1434.png 1920w, https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/files\/2020\/07\/Denita-White-and-Katherine-Maloney-672x502.png 672w, https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/files\/2020\/07\/Denita-White-and-Katherine-Maloney-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/files\/2020\/07\/Denita-White-and-Katherine-Maloney-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/files\/2020\/07\/Denita-White-and-Katherine-Maloney-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/files\/2020\/07\/Denita-White-and-Katherine-Maloney-620x463.png 620w, https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/files\/2020\/07\/Denita-White-and-Katherine-Maloney-1446x1080.png 1446w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-media-credit\">Denita White and Catherine Maloney \/ Tulsa Public Schools<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Denita White, (left) Manager of Equity Content at Tulsa Public Schools, and Katherine Maloney, a third grade teacher at Hawthorne Elementary School in Tulsa.<\/p>\n<\/div><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ve just got to do it.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s the advice of Denita White, Manager of Equity Content at Tulsa Public Schools, and Katherine Maloney, a third grade teacher at Hawthorne Elementary School in Tulsa.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYou just have to model what it means to engage in difficult conversations,\u201d White said. \u201cI feel like in my experience with kids, when you present holistic pictures and holistic conversations to them, they&#8217;re able to make sense of what&#8217;s right and wrong on their own.\u201d<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a far-ranging conversation with StateImpact education reporter Robby Korth, the pair stressed that though it can be intimidating to talk to a child about race issues it\u2019s too important not to.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.simplecast.com\/e7c38393-67a7-4580-a028-ccf3bfdb5e76?dark=false\" width=\"100%\" height=\"200px\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless=\"\"><\/iframe><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, they said, not talking about race and insisting on being colorblind to racial issues is a major contributor to the challenges Tulsa, Oklahoma and the United States face when it comes to racial justice.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some of the strategies they shared.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Colorblindness isn\u2019t a good strategy for talking about race<\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One important step, both educators said, is to acknowledge race.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And a strategy where parents or teachers try to be \u201cblind\u201d to race ignores challenges faced by Black and brown people.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIt&#8217;s a cop out,\u201d Maloney said. \u201cTeaching and parenting in a way that emphasizes being colorblind first and foremost, abdicates responsibility from the teacher or the parent to actually do the work themselves to learn about the very real impact of systemic racism in our institutions and in our society at large.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAnd I think then the effect on children is two-fold. For white children who grew up with parents who choose the colorblind route, we&#8217;re feeding into the vicious cycle of systemic racism, lack of knowledge and an inability to see people. That is a huge part of where we&#8217;re at in society today. For children of color to grow up being educated by colorblind educators, the impact is that those children never truly feel seen or they might not feel heard by some of the adults that will have some of the largest influences in their life,\u201d Maloney said.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">White said ignorance of race creates problems as well because it will prevent children from recognizing and addressing issues of injustice.\u201d<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBeing colorblind is inherently like trying to prove that you&#8217;re not racist,\u201d White said. \u201cBut in a system&#8230; that is by and large racialized, I have a hard time understanding how you can see injustice or how you can see racism if you are colorblind.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Address current events head on<\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In his recent Tulsa rally, President Donald Trump called COVID-19 the \u201ckung flu,\u201d in an attempt to further link the novel coronavirus that shut down the nation to China. Talking to children about that rhetoric and addressing why it\u2019s racist is one effective way to illustrate cause and effect, the educators said.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWe can explain to our students pretty easily that this is a method totally to deflect blame from the president and his coronavirus response,\u201d Maloney said. \u201cIt is a completely racist attempt to pin the responsibility on people of Chinese descent. And there&#8217;s been very real consequences of that, since March, when this messaging of the Chinese virus, Kung flu, since all of that kind of started. There have been over two thousand instances of hostility reported to the AAPI (Asian American and Pacific Islanders) Stop Hate Initiative.\u201d<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cSo this has a very direct link. It&#8217;s very clear the sequence is very clear and we can make that sequence clear to kids. He said this, this happened. I think a lot of kids are very good at understanding, cause and effect and that actions have consequences. And words have consequences,\u201d Maloney said<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Identify good stories with diverse characters<\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maloney suggests parents should look at their children\u2019s bookshelf.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are the stories filled with white protagonists? Are the folktales all European? Are the people of color portraying villains?<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the answer is yes to one or all three of these questions she said she suggests \u201cde-colonizing\u201d the stories in your life.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One quick and easy way is to look at family movies. Three films she suggests are: &#8220;The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind,&#8221; &#8220;Selma, Lord Selma,&#8221; and &#8220;Woodlawn.&#8221;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are also plenty of books out there. Maloney said one of the best places to look is <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/socialjusticebooks.org\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">socialjusticebooks.org<\/span><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because there might not be very many people in someone\u2019s community who look different, that\u2019s not an excuse to not explore race. And stories are a good way to make that happen, she said.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Don\u2019t shy away from difficult topics of conversation<\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Changing the topic or avoiding talking about race sets a poor example for children. In fact, White said, avoiding tough conversations because they\u2019re awkward or tough have created problems for civil dialogue in the present.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIf our kids grow up and see that the adults around them never talk about race, never talk about disparities, never talk about inequity, if they have internalized that this is not something that we talk about, then it&#8217;s not important,\u201d White said. \u201cI am sure and I heard this message when I was growing up as well. But like, you don&#8217;t talk about race. You don&#8217;t talk about politics. You don&#8217;t talk about all those things. And now we&#8217;re in a society where we can&#8217;t have productive conversations right now.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Acknowledge and discuss history<\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Tulsa race massacre has left an obvious scar on the city.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The 1921 massacre of Black people and destruction of property in the historic Greenwood district left hundreds dead and 35 blocks of Black neighborhoods and businesses destroyed.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And there are still disparities from that event today in the city.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maloney encouraged parents to bring their children out into their community.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cTake a walk downtown,\u201d Maloney said. \u201cThere are plaques everywhere that show the wealth of businesses that were once in our city. And now you can also see do that there&#8217;s a baseball stadium, a highway and a university in those spots as well. And I think, talk to your kid about that. Why do you think that that&#8217;s there now? Why was this community never allowed to or never able to, you know, rise again from this event?\u201d<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Linking that history from 100 years ago to issues people still face today is one way to encourage children to seek racial justice, the educators said.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIt&#8217;s important to remember that not talking about historical events is just another form of racism,\u201d White said. \u201cIt&#8217;s just another form and another way to silence people who have been oppressed in our society.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve just got to do it.That\u2019s the advice of Denita White, Manager of Equity Content at Tulsa Public Schools, and Katherine Maloney, a third grade teacher at Hawthorne Elementary School in Tulsa.\u00a0\u201cYou just have to model what it means to engage in difficult conversations,\u201d White said. \u201cI feel like in my experience with kids, when [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":209,"featured_media":33035,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"page-noFeature.php","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[17],"tags":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33034"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/209"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33034"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33034\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":33040,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33034\/revisions\/33040"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33034"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33034"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/oklahoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33034"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}