{"id":9965,"date":"2012-07-11T15:04:49","date_gmt":"2012-07-11T19:04:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/?p=9965"},"modified":"2012-07-17T16:37:25","modified_gmt":"2012-07-17T20:37:25","slug":"the-secret-lives-of-students-when-school-rules-conflict-with-home-rules","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/2012\/07\/11\/the-secret-lives-of-students-when-school-rules-conflict-with-home-rules\/","title":{"rendered":"The Secret Lives of Students: When School Rules Conflict with Home Rules"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_10005\"  class=\"wp-caption module image right\" style=\"max-width: 300px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/2012\/07\/11\/the-secret-lives-of-students-when-school-rules-conflict-with-home-rules\/authors\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-10005\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-10005\" title=\"authors\" src=\"http:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/files\/2012\/07\/authors-300x179.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"179\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/files\/2012\/07\/authors-300x179.jpg 300w, https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/files\/2012\/07\/authors-620x370.jpg 620w, https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/files\/2012\/07\/authors.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p class=\"wp-media-credit\">Breakthrough Miami<\/p><p class=\"wp-caption-text\"> The student authors who reported and wrote about conflicting home and school rules. <\/p><\/div>\n<p><em>Editor&#8217;s note: We&#8217;re launching <a href=\"http:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/tag\/secret-lives-of-students\/\">a new series<\/a> for the next month, asking\u00a0 students to tell us what life is like in Florida schools.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>The students are part of Breakthrough Miami, which runs programs in the summer and during the school year for students in elementary, middle and high schools.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>We asked students to tell us what was on their minds. The answer? Rules, cliques, school lunches and other aspects of school life. They&#8217;ll also tell us what they think of online classes and whether teachers are teaching to the test.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>This post was reported and written by elementary students\u00a0Joshua Partridge (10), Saed Cameron (11), Emma Blanco (10), Joshua Johnson (11), Ashanti Kinchen (10) and Teley Laporte (11) &#8211; Students participating in the summer school program,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.breakthroughmiami.org\/landing.html\">Breakthrough Miami.\u00a0<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a common problem that students everywhere face: Your parent or guardian tells you to defend yourself if confronted at school, while your principal tells you that hitting back equals suspension.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>As a student, whose advice do you follow? What do you do?<\/p>\n<p>Lashae Johnson-Antenor,\u00a0a fourth grade student at Holmes Elementary at the time of her incident, shared her experiences with this issue.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Even though the rules at my school were to keep all hands and feet to myself, I chose to listen to my parents and defended myself,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>For her, it was not a tough decision.<\/p>\n<p>Her mother Ebony Johnson says, \u201cIn all cases you can\u2019t prevent a fight.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The mother wasn\u2019t upset with her daughters actions, but was upset with the results.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_10006\"  class=\"wp-caption module image left\" style=\"max-width: 179px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/2012\/07\/11\/the-secret-lives-of-students-when-school-rules-conflict-with-home-rules\/stephanie-byrd\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-10006\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-10006\" title=\"Stephanie Byrd\" src=\"http:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/files\/2012\/07\/Stephanie-Byrd-179x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"179\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/files\/2012\/07\/Stephanie-Byrd-179x300.jpg 179w, https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/files\/2012\/07\/Stephanie-Byrd-612x1024.jpg 612w, https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/files\/2012\/07\/Stephanie-Byrd.jpg 1952w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 179px) 100vw, 179px\" \/><\/a><p class=\"wp-media-credit\">Breakthrough Miami<\/p><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Rising middle school student Stephanie Byrd was interviewed by her peers at Breakthrough Miami.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Mrs. Melissa, an elementary school teacher and parent, also commented on the issue.<\/p>\n<p>As a parent, she tells her child to \u201cuse words instead of hitting\u201d and to \u201ctell an adult.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In the classroom, she says that any fighting is \u201cnot tolerated,&#8221; and when a problem comes up, she makes sure that parents are informed on the school\u2019s fighting policy.<\/p>\n<p>Stephanie Byrd, a rising middle school student at Downtown Miami Charter School, suggests a solution.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll you have to do is adapt to your environment,&#8221; Bryd said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Follow the school rules at school, and follow your parents\u2019 rules at home.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em>The student authors attend The Cushman School campus during the Breakthrough Miami summer program.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Editor&#8217;s note: We&#8217;re launching a new series for the next month, asking  students to tell us what life is like in Florida schools.<\/p>\n<p>The students are part of Breakthrough Miami, which runs programs in the summer and during the school year for students in elementary, middle and high schools.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":32,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[15],"tags":[1122,568,1029,556],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9965"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/32"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9965"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9965\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10029,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9965\/revisions\/10029"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9965"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9965"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateimpact.npr.org\/florida\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9965"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}